ive been keeping my gardenia for about a year and weve had lots of problems unfortunately.. we got over some "blackening and falling off leaves" and one day a very great looking and smeeling flower we had...
but now i see my plant dying...
lots of mealy bugs though i use a spray...but im afraid that the spray might be harmful for the plant itself..

what is more and sooo urgent that the leaves are suddenly getting all very DRY and fall off... (although the soil is moist..and i try to moist the leaves as well...)

it seems the plant is DYING.. is it?? : (
-it is very special to me.. what can i do to save it?-